I have to say this is one of the most poorly argued editorials I've ever run across. This author claims to have gotten this from a professor of economics at LSU. The argument is this: because Mr. Rogers told children "you are special," they, in turn believe that the world owes them a living, and that the professor should give them good grades just for being there.
I'm sorry, I can't buy that.
In growing up in ye ancient times, I was told by everyone around me that I wasn't special. I was told that I was not worth being spoken to. This was mostly by my peers, but to some extent by my family and teachers. It seemed everyone didn't think I was worth anything.
That is, except Mr. Rogers.
The article then goes on...
Prof. Chance teaches many Asian-born students, and says they accept whatever grade they're given; they see B's and C's as an indication that they must work harder, and that their elders assessed them accurately. They didn't grow up with Mr. Rogers or anyone else telling them they were born special.
Prof. Chance and the author neglect to mention that two of the countries with the highest teen suicide rates are Japan and China.
He wishes more parents would offer kids this perspective: "The world owes you nothing. You have to work and compete. If you want to be special, you'll have to prove it."
Of course, being told you're no more than a cog in the machine is very dehumanizing. Invariably, it leads to low self-esteem. It's really both perspectives one should tell the kid: "You are special, but you must work to make it in this world."
In America today, life often begins with the anointing of "His Majesty, the Fetus," he says. From then on, many parents focus their conversations on their kids. Today's parents "are the best-educated generation ever," says Dr. Rosenfeld. "So why do our kids see us primarily discussing kids' schedules and activities?"
So are you suggesting we disreguard the kids and focus strictly on ourselves? You know, that's how gang members get made.
He encourages parents to talk about their passions and interests; about politics, business, world events. "Because everything is child-centered today, we're depriving children of adults," he says. "If they never see us as adults being adults, how will they deal with important matters when it is their world?"
Many of these subjects are quite complicated and will fly way over a young person's head. I just can't see a nine-year-old completely grasping all the complexities of society today. Not only that, but if you discuss just how messed up things are, that will also lead to low-self esteem and thoughts of suicide.
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